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MySQL Managed database
We are currently using a managed Databases with MySQL 8 on DigitalOcean. The credentials are in LastPass.
Access and Management
Visit DigitalOceans Database Dashboard to see all our Database cluster 
Cluster
Visit the Cluster dashboard to monitor and manage its behavior 
Creating Users and Databases
New databases and users can be created through the UI

Connection Details and Credentials
The credentials for a particular DB can be seen in the Cluster dashboard
Currently, we are using username doadmin with the database dev_01 and the host db-mysql-nyc3-44656-do-user-950257-0.b.db.ondigitalocean.com on port 25060
Untested Migration feature
Digital ocean offers to create the migration for us. This feature is potentially very valuable but needs further evaluation . 
Known problems
sql_require_primary_key
Our managed DigitalOcean DB has this MYSQL setting active default, enforcing that every table needs to have a primary key. This is a problem, since some of our Laravel migrations create tables using string or a uuid as primary keys. Those migrations will fail if we don't deactivate this setting temporarily
The current work-around within a troubled migration:
php
/** @todo cleanup when not needed anymore */
DB::statement('SET SESSION sql_require_primary_key=0');
Schema::create('table_name', static function (Blueprint $table) {
$table->string('id', 100)->primary();
...
});
DB::statement('SET SESSION sql_require_primary_key=1');